Send an Anonymous Message to Anyone by Name

Dear you is a free anonymous message website — no sign-up, no tracking. Write your letter, enter a name, and submit. It lives in the archive forever, addressed to them. If they ever search their name on Dear you, they'll find it.

Find anonymous letters written to a name

Someone may have written to you already. Search your name in the archive.

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Why Dear you?

  • • 100% anonymous — no account, no email, no trace
  • • Search by name — find letters written to you
  • • Add a Spotify song — attach music that captures your feelings
  • • Browse by mood — heartbreak, closure, first love, and more

Letters Anonymous alternative

Looking for a Letters Anonymous alternative? Dear you is free, anonymous, and lets you search letters by name. Browse hundreds of real anonymous love letters, unsent messages to exes, secret confessions, and words people never had the courage to say.

Common questions

Can I send an anonymous message to someone by name?

Yes. Write your message, enter their name, and submit. It's added to the Dear you archive anonymously. If they search their name, they'll find it — but your identity is never revealed.

How do I find anonymous letters written to my name?

Go to the archive and search your name. If someone wrote to you, it'll be there. Many people share Dear you with friends hoping they'll search themselves.

Is Dear you a secret letter website?

Yes. You write a letter, address it to a name, and it lives in the archive privately until someone searches for it. No notifications, no alerts — just words waiting to be found.

Is it really anonymous?

Completely. No account required. No email. No way to trace who wrote what. Just the letter and the name it's addressed to.